Sunday, August 2, 2020

Exile

2 Samuel 15:13-16:14

Good morning!  We are now about three quarters of the way through our series on King David which has primarily focused on the account in 2 Samuel.  The final message in this series is planned for September 13th, 6 weeks from today.  Last week, we saw David’s son Absalom very craftily working his way into the hearts of the people of Israel.  Carl gave a family friendly disclaimer last week.  I will say something similar for today’s message.  I will try to keep today’s message family friendly, but we will talk about family estrangement and angry exchanges, so depending on the age and emotional maturity level of your children, portions of the message may or may not be appropriate for them.

Let me start with some of the backstory, Absalom, King David’s oldest son, had returned from his own self-imposed banishment.  He had manipulated Joab in an aggressive way to at least outwardly be restored to his father.  Remember that Absalom had spent three years in the kingdom of Geshur, his mother’s home country.  Then, he spent two more years in Jerusalem without seeing his father.

Why was Absalom estranged from and not allowed to see his father for five or more years?  Absalom had taken vengeance into his own hands against his brother Amnon.  Amnon’s guilt is not in question.  But, Absalom did not have the right to take the law into his own hands and have his brother killed.

As Carl explained last week, there remained a gigantic unspoken disagreement between David and Absalom. Absalom believed he was right to take action against Amnon, and David did not. Underlying the disagreement between them is the broader question of whether justice was served in the two years prior to Absalom’s actions against Amnon. Despite David’s desire to reconcile with Absalom, David did not see how this broader disagreement could be solved unless Absalom were to admit he was wrong.

Sadly, Absalom continues on his path of separation from his father.  We saw last week how Absalom had changed his tactics from how he had treated Joab.  (Absalom had his servants burn down a field of barley that belonged to Joab in order to get Joab’s attention.)  In the first part of 2 Samuel 15, Absalom spends four years in an almost daily routine to steal the hearts of the people of Israel.  He gets up early, he rides in a chariot looking important, he has 50 runners further raising attention to himself, he stands in the city gates, he speaks to anyone who has a complaint to be decided before the king, he asserts that they cannot find justice perhaps even discouraging them so much that they believe him and do not even ask for a hearing, he tells the people that he should be a judge to see that the people get justice, he won’t allow anyone to bow before him but instead kisses them.

It is very easy to proclaim motives for why people do certain things.  This risk also exists when looking at the people in the bible.  I cannot say for sure what Absalom was thinking.  Though it is safe to say Absalom was painfully impacted by the great injustice in the handling of Amnon’s crime.  By his actions now, it appears Absalom has projected the reality of injustice in that situation onto everyone’s complaint.  Since justice was not enforced against Amnon, he is telling everyone with a complaint no matter how big or small:  there is no justice in Israel.

When did Absalom’s behavior turn into a conspiracy against his father?  We don’t know.  Perhaps on day one of his sensational trips to the city gates, this was Absalom’s endgame.  Perhaps as the bitterness Absalom held onto coupled with the favor he was gaining among the people, an even more insidious plan beyond merely discrediting his father took shape.  Regardless, Absalom does rebel against his father in an effort to become king himself.

After winning the hearts of the people, Absalom goes to his father for permission to go to Hebron saying he is going there to worship the Lord in response to a vow he had made when in Geshur.  I couldn’t remember anyone going to worhip at Hebron, but I did find that Abraham had built an altar to the Lord there in Genesis 13:8.  There are other things about Hebron which might make it a significant place to worship the Lord including it being a city of refuge in Judah, the tribe of David and Absalom.  Whether Absalom truly made a vow when in Geshur, we do not know.  But remember too that Hebron is the place where David reigned as king before the capture of Jerusalem.  David’s agrees to Absalom’s request.

Absalom goes to Hebron and sends out secret messengers throughout Israel to respond to the trumpet call that Absalom is king in Hebron.  There were 200 innocent guests who had accompanied Absalom to Hebron.  Even while Absalom is offering sacrifices, he sends for Ahitophel, one of David’s counselors.  Last week’s passage concludes (2 Samuel 15:12), “the conspiracy gained strength and Absalom’s following kept on increasing.”

Let’s pick up the story at 2 Samuel 15:13,

A messenger came and told David, “The hearts of the people of Israel are with Absalom.”
Then David said to all his officials who were with him in Jerusalem, “Come! We must flee, or none of us will escape from Absalom. We must leave immediately, or he will move quickly to overtake us and bring ruin on us and put the city to the sword.” – 2 Samuel 15:13-14

This is an incredibly short accounting.  It’s almost as if David expected this news.  Again, I cautioned against trying assess what people were thinking.  We don’t know what David’s thoughts were leading up to this moment.  It is interesting that his reaction is to flee rather than confront Absalom.  David seems to know exactly what is happening around him, but he has not taken action to prevent it.

I think there are two or more lenses through which we can view this situation.

I wonder at David as a father.  Could he not have somehow done more to be reconciled to Absalom?  We don’t have an account of David taking any action in the case against Amnon.  We don’t have an account of David reaching out to Absalom.  We see others acting to bring about some form of reconciliation, but not David.  The primary thinking I have seen to explain David’s lack of action is a perceived loss of authority to speak into his sons’ lives due to his own sins.  Is this the case?  We don’t know for sure, but it could be.  Sin is damaging on many levels, some we don’t see for quite some time.  I think we can take away the warning we shouldn’t have a careless attitude toward sin.  Sin is serious, and we should flee from it.  We should seek to pursue God and a life of holiness continually.

I wonder also at David as king.  Could he not have prepared to defend the throne and insure that the kingship of Israel did not pass into the hands of the heir apparent in an untimely way?  We will come to this more as we get into the passage.  But I think the answer to my question is yes.  David could have prepared to fight.  He chose not to.  David chose exile instead of destroying Absalom.

The king's officials answered him, “Your servants are ready to do whatever our lord the king chooses.”  The king set out, with his entire household following him; but he left ten concubines to take care of the palace.  So the king set out, with all the people following him, and they halted at the edge of the city. – 2 Samuel 15:15-17

It must have been a huge group.  Absalom had gone to Hebron with 200.  David’s entire household and a portion of the army would have numbered in the thousands.  It was impossible for David to know but, the decision to leave ten concubines behind will have another tragic result.

They stopped at the edge of the city to arrange the caravan likely to be able maneuver along the roadway.

All his men marched past him, along with all the Kerethites and Pelethites; and all the six hundred Gittites who had accompanied him from Gath marched before the king. The king said to Ittai the Gittite, "Why should you come along with us? Go back and stay with King Absalom. You are a foreigner, an exile from your homeland. You came only yesterday. And today shall I make you wander about with us, when I do not know where I am going? Go back, and take your people with you. May the LORD show you kindness and faithfulness." But Ittai replied to the king, "As surely as the LORD lives, and as my lord the king lives, wherever my lord the king may be, whether it means life or death, there will your servant be." David said to Ittai, "Go ahead, march on." So Ittai the Gittite marched on with all his men and the families that were with him. – 2 Samuel 15:18-22

The soldiers move to the front.  The Kerethites and Pelethites are mentioned various places and make up a kind of royal guard for the king.  The exact origin of these two groups is not clearly known, but various mentions of them in scripture makes it appear that they are not Jewish, at least not born Jewish.  David’s entourage consists of people who are not native born Israelites.  This inclusion is quite remarkable. 

Furthermore, we see Ittai as the leader of 600 Gittites.  In the message on 2 Samuel 6, we talked about how there was more than one place named Gath and that Obed-Edom the Gittite who kept the Ark of the Covenant for a time was likely an Israelite rather than a Philistine.  It is obvious here that Ittai is a foreigner and an exile from his land.  Ittai is a Philistine.  Again, remarkable.  600 soldiers from an enemy are committed supporters of the King of Israel.  David shows great deference and respect to Ittai by offering to release him to return home.

Ittai expresses his devotion to the king, and Ittai, his soldiers and their families all march together with King David.  Ittai’s commitment is beautiful, “As surely as the LORD lives, and as my lord the king lives, wherever my lord the king may be, whether it means life or death, there will your servant be.”  May we seek continually to live with our Lord, King Jesus, as Ittai followed David.

The whole countryside wept aloud as all the people passed by. The king also crossed the Kidron Valley, and all the people moved on toward the wilderness. Zadok was there, too, and all the Levites who were with him were carrying the ark of the covenant of God. They set down the ark of God, and Abiathar offered sacrifices until all the people had finished leaving the city. Then the king said to Zadok, "Take the ark of God back into the city. If I find favor in the LORD's eyes, He will bring me back and let me see it and His dwelling place again. But if He says, 'I am not pleased with you,' then I am ready; let Him do to me whatever seems good to Him." – 2 Samuel 15:23-26

We said in the opening of the message that Absalom had stolen the hearts of the people, but not entirely.  The people surrounding Jerusalem all of them are grieved at the departure of the king.

They cross the Kidron Valley.  John 18:1 tells of another crossing of the Kidron.  Jesus too followed this path to the Garden of Gethsemane on the Mount of Olives on the night he was betrayed.

I marvel at the action of Zadok, the priests, and Levites.  They bring the ark of God to go with David.  This is not a trivial thing to do, and not something you do at the drop of the hat.  Then, they offer sacrifices and worship the Lord in the midst of this tragic exodus.  It is such a contrast with Absalom.  Absalom has been working diligently, masterminding a plot, carefully gathering support to supplant his father.  David in the meantime arguably saw what was coming and accepted exile when it was the course which would best preserve peace in the nation.

After the time of sacrifice and worship, David returns the ark to Jerusalem.  Despite the great promises of God, David does not suppose that it is his right to take the ark of God into exile.  David sees himself far different than other ancient rulers.  For example, the pharaoh’s were made out to be gods on earth.  David regards himself as a man subject to God.  His trust even at this moment of great uncertainty is in the Lord.  If it is the Lord’s will, then David will return.  Regardless of what comes though, David’s trust is in the Lord.  David’s thinking is as Job said, “The LORD gives, and the LORD takes away.  Blessed be the name of the LORD.” (Job 1:21)

The king also said to Zadok the priest, "Do you understand? Go back to the city with my blessing. Take your son Ahimaaz with you, and also Abiathar's son Jonathan. You and Abiathar return with your two sons. I will wait at the fords in the wilderness until word comes from you to inform me." So Zadok and Abiathar took the ark of God back to Jerusalem and stayed there.  But David continued up the Mount of Olives, weeping as he went; his head was covered and he was barefoot. All the people with him covered their heads too and were weeping as they went up. – 2 Samuel 15:27-30

David also asks Zadok to be a point of contact in Jerusalem.  David will travel up to a place where it is possible to cross the Jordan River.  He will cross when Zadok confirms that it is necessary.  Interestingly, at this point, David doesn’t know how Zadok will get the necessary information.  I don’t know if you have worked with great leaders, but it is as if they know what is needed before the path is mapped out.  David sends Zadok and Abiathar to receive a critical message for which David will wait at a critical place at a critical moment, and the messenger is unknown to any of them.

David continues on.  His posture is one of humility.  Head covered and barefoot both signs of sorrow.  He is broken-hearted.  He allows himself to weep even in the sight of everyone.  It is a sad time.  They are traversing the Mount of Olives that place too where Jesus was “sorrowful and troubled” (Matthew 26:37) and “being in anguish … His sweat was like drops of blood falling to the ground” as He was on the final path to the cross.

Now David had been told, "Ahithophel is among the conspirators with Absalom." So David prayed, "LORD, turn Ahithophel's counsel into foolishness." When David arrived at the summit, where people used to worship God, Hushai the Arkite was there to meet him, his robe torn and dust on his head. David said to him, "If you go with me, you will be a burden to me. But if you return to the city and say to Absalom, 'Your Majesty, I will be your servant; I was your father's servant in the past, but now I will be your servant,' then you can help me by frustrating Ahithophel's advice. Won't the priests Zadok and Abiathar be there with you? Tell them anything you hear in the king's palace. Their two sons, Ahimaaz son of Zadok and Jonathan son of Abiathar, are there with them. Send them to me with anything you hear." So Hushai, David's confidant, arrived at Jerusalem as Absalom was entering the city. – 2 Samuel 15:31-37

This news about Ahithophel joining the conspiracy is devastating.  Ahithophel was incredibly wise.  Borrowing from next week’s passage, 2 Samuel 16:23 says this about Ahithophel, “Now in those days the advice Ahithophel gave was like that of one who inquires of God. That was how both David and Absalom regarded all of Ahithophel's advice.”

If Ahithophel were so wise, why would he join the conspiracy?  We are not expressly told, but Ahithophel was Bathsheba’s grandfather.  Did Ahithophel harbor resentment over David’s treatment of both Bathsheba and Uriah?  It is certainly plausible.

What about Hushai?  Who is he?  We don’t see more of Hushai’s life than what is told in these two chapters in 2 Samuel.  But, I Chronicles 27:33 explains that while “Ahithophel was the king’s counselor. Hushai the Arkite was the king’s confidant.”  Other translations use the word friend instead of confidant.  Not only was Hushai the king’s closest personal adviser.  Hushai was the king’s friend.

Hushai’s appearance at this moment is the beginning of the answer to David’s prayer to frustrate Ahitophel’s advice.  Seriously, I’m not trying to find foreigners in David’s inner circle behind every bush, but it is likely that Hushai too was a non-Israelite.  Apart from passages involving Hushai, Arkites are mentioned 3 other times in the bible.  Twice they are clearly a separate people group from the Israelites and in fact descended from Canaan.  The third time in Joshua 16 their territory is described as part of the border Ephraim and Manasseh.  David seems to regard people as individuals unique in character and relationship far more than would have been common in His time or in any time really.

The details of the plan which David had set in motion with Zadok and Abiathar are now coming together.  Hushai returns to Jerusalem, and we see how truly close Absalom is to David and his caravan.  The summit of the Mount of Olives is only a half a mile from Jerusalem.

When David had gone a short distance beyond the summit, there was Ziba, the steward of Mephibosheth, waiting to meet him. He had a string of donkeys saddled and loaded with two hundred loaves of bread, a hundred cakes of raisins, a hundred cakes of figs and a skin of wine. The king asked Ziba, "Why have you brought these?" Ziba answered, "The donkeys are for the king's household to ride on, the bread and fruit are for the men to eat, and the wine is to refresh those who become exhausted in the wilderness." The king then asked, "Where is your master's grandson?" Ziba said to him, "He is staying in Jerusalem, because he thinks, 'Today the Israelites will restore to me my grandfather's kingdom.' “Then the king said to Ziba, "All that belonged to Mephibosheth is now yours." "I humbly bow," Ziba said. "May I find favor in your eyes, my lord the king." – 2 Samuel 16:1-4

There is a lot of good here, but there is some bad, too.  Quick recap.  Mephibosheth was a son of Jonathan son of Saul.  David had brought Mephibosheth to Jerusalem and rather than having him executed as a part of Saul’s family, David had Mephibosheth regularly at his table just as one of his own sons.  David had also restored all the lands of Saul to Mephibosheth, no doubt a tremendous estate.  David then installed Ziba, a former servant of Saul’s household, as the steward of all that property with great resources at his disposal.  So, Ziba was able to act quickly to help meet the physical needs of David and his caravan.  He has seemingly thought of everything.  Transportation.  Food. Refreshment.  All very welcome to David and his people.

Unfortunately, we’ll see in chapter 19 that Ziba though certainly a help here is also an unscrupulous opportunist.  When David asks after the grandson of Ziba’s master, he means Mephibosheth.  It is a bold-faced lie that Mephibosheth hopes that the kingdom will be restored to him.  For starters, the kingdom was never Mephibsoheth’s.  Even during the uncertain time after Saul’s death and David being recognized as king over all Israel, it was Ish-bosheth not Mephibosheth who was held up as Saul’s successor as king by Abner who had been the commander of Israel’s army under Saul.

David’s initial question to Ziba is an interesting one.  “Why?”  Why Ziba, what’s your angle?  Then, I wonder whether David sees that something is a little off in Ziba’s story about Mephibosheth.  David sees Mephibosheth nearly every day.  It seems unlikely he’d be completely unaware of whether Mephibosheth has rebellious aspirations himself.

In the end, I don’t think we can know whether or not David has been taken in by Ziba’s craftiness.  David has already confessed that he doesn’t know whether or not he will be restored in Jerusalem.  Giving rights of ownership to Ziba at this moment seems uncertain at best.  No doubt, David does appreciate Ziba’s support and wishes to reward him in some way.

As King David approached Bahurim, a man from the same clan as Saul's family came out from there. His name was Shimei son of Gera, and he cursed as he came out. He pelted David and all the king's officials with stones, though all the troops and the special guard were on David's right and left. As he cursed, Shimei said, "Get out, get out, you murderer, you scoundrel! The LORD has repaid you for all the blood you shed in the household of Saul, in whose place you have reigned. The LORD has given the kingdom into the hands of your son Absalom. You have come to ruin because you are a murderer!” – 2 Samuel 16:5-8

So David’s path to the fords of the Jordan take him through the land of Benjamin.  Saul was from the tribe of Benjamin.  Shimei who is from Saul’s clan comes out cursing.  Not only that, he’s throwing rocks.  That can be dangerous.  His message is biting, but misguided.  David indeed carries the guilt of Uriah’s murder on himself.  No doubt David has not forgotten the words of Nathan the prophet.  David sees this flight as a result of God’s judgment that “calamity would be brought from his own household.” (2 Samuel 12:11)  This tempers David’s response to Shimei who could rightly be called a loose cannon.

Then Abishai son of Zeruiah said to the king, "Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king? Let me go over and cut off his head." But the king said, "What does this have to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah? If he is cursing because the LORD said to him, 'Curse David,' who can ask, 'Why do you do this?' "David then said to Abishai and all his officials, "My son, my own flesh and blood, is trying to kill me. How much more, then, this Benjamite! Leave him alone; let him curse, for the LORD has told him to. It may be that the LORD will look upon my misery and restore to me his covenant blessing instead of his curse today." So David and his men continued along the road while Shimei was going along the hillside opposite him, cursing as he went and throwing stones at him and showering him with dirt. – 2 Samuel 16:9-13

We’ve seen David previously lament the hot-headed behavior of the sons of Zeruiah.  It’s as if Abishai and Joab’s go-to solution is the sword.  Is this guy bothering you?  I can fix that.  David immediately rejects this suggestion.  In fact, he goes on to try and get Abishai to see the bigger picture.  In the midst of David’s shame and broken-heartedness, he is able to speak to Abishai of God.  He also implores Abishai to have some perspective.  This situation where Shimei even has the chance to curse David came about because Absalom is attempting to supplant his father.

David then says, “It may be that the LORD will look upon my misery and restore to me his covenant blessing instead of his curse today.”  I think that we have to be a little bit careful interpreting a statement like this.  It is easy to think transactionally or formulaically.  If this, then that.  If I endure misery, then I will gain something and even a particular thing in return.  I don’t think we can set terms like this.  We certainly have the promises of God, and God will not go back on His promises.  But we can’t see how every situation will work out.  We’ve all offered prayers to God in faith that were not answered in the way we wanted (or planned).  Looking at this situation with Shimei and David’s statement about the Lord looking on the misery of it, the thinking is “do what is right at this moment knowing that God will take care of the future.”  David makes allowance that the time of his kingship is in God’s hands, not his own.

Meanwhile, Shimei just keeps going, yelling and throwing.  It is really hard to be insulted.  It’s even harder to endure insults while being peppered with dirt and rocks.  Exhausting even.  And that brings us to the end of today’s passage.

The king and all the people with him arrived at their destination exhausted. And there he refreshed himself. – 2 Samuel 16:14

There is good news in this short verse.  The king arrived at his destination.  All the people arrived their destination.  None were lost or left behind.  There was the opportunity to be refreshed.  It was not endless running without hope.  Short though it may have been there was time to be refreshed.

In conclusion to this passage, I still marvel that David chose exile over fighting back.  David chose exile over destroying Absalom outright.  David was willing to let Absalom go free even into rebellion.  I think we can see Jesus in David’s behavior toward Absalom.

In our sins, separated from God, people are in rebellion against God.  God has the power to “reconcile” us to Himself in judgment.  “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”  But God does not give up on us there.  We don’t have clear evidences that David reached out to Absalom and he arguably could have done better there.  At the same time, we should not go too far and miss the fact that David held to hope that Absalom would turn back to his father and to his God in repentance and seek forgiveness.

God is more than patient with us desiring everyone to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).  There has been no more humiliating spectacle in all history than Jesus on the cross.  The creator of the universe was beaten beyond recognition and stripped.  He was jeered and insulted.  Those hours on the cross were agonizing.  The chief priests and teachers of the law even taunted and mocked, "He saved others, but he can't save himself! He's the king of Israel! Let him come down now from the cross, and we will believe in him.” (Matthew 27:41–42)

For you Lord of the Rings fans, there is the moment in the movie The Fellowship of the Ring where Bilbo Baggins is being particularly stubborn to the point of being deceived by evil.  Gandalf the wizard confronts him simultaneously appearing to grow very large and dark.  He says, “Bilbo Baggins!” with obvious superiority.

Among many temptations that Jesus faced … at any moment, He could have said, “Do you know who I am?”  But in saving the world, Jesus did not do that.  He endured all the difficulty, all the shame, all the scorn, he did not lash out, as a sheep before its shearers, he was silent.  Jesus was not merely shorn for our transgressions, but pierced.  He was crushed for our iniquities.  “The punishment that brought us peace was on Him.” (Isaiah 53:5)

Jesus experienced exile on our behalf.  He walked this earth in sinless perfection for 33 years, separated from the Father in a way He never had been in all of eternity past.  Then, at the cross, Jesus was banished from the Father’s presence as the full cup of the wrath of God was poured out on Him.  There is nothing like it anywhere or in any time.  David’s behavior gives us a glimpse of what Jesus has done perfectly and completely.

I’ve been enjoying reading the J.B. Phillips translation of the New Testament.  Though last revised in 1972, Phillips began his translation work by rewording the epistles for his church’s youth group in modern English.  That was during World War 2 when his group met in bomb shelters.  The following verses come from Romans 15:

For all those words which were written long ago are meant to teach us today; that when we read in the scriptures of the endurance of people and of all the help that God gave them in those days, we may be encouraged to go on hoping in our own time.
May the God who inspires people to endure, and gives them a Father’s care, give you a mind united towards one another because of your common loyalty to Jesus Christ. And then, as one person, you will sing from the heart the praises of God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.  Open your hearts to one another as Christ has opened his heart to you, and God will be glorified. – Romans 15:4-7

May the God of hope fill you with joy and peace in your faith, that by the power of the Holy Spirit, your whole life and outlook may be radiant with hope.  For myself I feel certain that you, my brothers and sisters, have real Christian character and experience, and that you are capable of keeping each other on the right road. – Romans 15:13-14

Amen.

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