Aloneness. I can’t imagine anyone who’s never dealt with
aloneness. It doesn’t matter if you’re
rich or poor, married or single, a teenager or elderly. It’s one of the things we all have in common.
When
I was a teenager I felt really alone. I
went to school, worked each week at an assisted living facility, ran a small
lawn care business, worked around our family’s farm, spent time with my family,
and went fishing, hunting, and camping, mostly by myself. As I did all these things I had a nagging
feeling, just wishing some guy from the church would just call me and spend
some time with me.
After a while, I did
invite myself into a friendship with a couple guys in the church. We began to spend time with each other outside
of the Thursday night men’s prayer meeting.
On Monday nights we spent time building unity through a very time
honored tradition in the mountains of North Carolina. We watched the completely
real sport of professional wrestling.
Some of you might call it “wrestling” but it is more accurately
pronounced “wrastling.” It may have seem
silly from the outside looking in but it was important to me.
Throughout the whole Bible we see that God has
provided solutions to this need that all of us have. He’s provided a relationship with Him, a
relationship with others in the church, marriage, and friendships in
general. But a friendship with God is
foundational to all the other relationships.
In 1 John 1:3-4 it says, “We proclaim to you what we have seen and
heard, so that you also may have fellowship with us. And our fellowship is with
the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ. We write this to make our joy
complete.” God is giving us an
invitation to be in fellowship with Himself and with the other believers.