Luke 14:7-24
I think we
all have some fear that we will go through life unnoticed. It starts at an early age. I see it in my children. I remember it from my own childhood. What are the two favorite words of a little
child? “Look daddy!” or “Look
mommy!” “Whoa, that’s amazing!” a parent
exclaims while trying to hide to hide the fact that they’ve seen it a million
times. “Did you see me?” a child will ask. And believe me, you’d better be looking or
you might have to see it another ten times to make up for the one time you
missed it.
Fast forward
to the teenage years. A girl finally
gets the boy of her dreams. She’s felt
insecure and things aren’t going well at home for her parents. She’s looking for love, for someone to notice
her. She’s looking for someone to make
her feel worthy.
A teenage
boy will give in to peer-pressure. He’ll
give in to alcohol, drugs or some other illegal activity because he feels
respected by other guys for doing those things.
Later in
life there’s jockeying for position and all kinds of politics while moving up
the corporate latter. “The only way I
can move up,” the desperate employee thinks, “is to make myself look better
than anyone else. Then I can finally be
respected. I’ve got to look out for me
first or I’ll be out of a job.”