
I want to pose a question to you. Do you think God sees you as too permissive or too legalistic? Speaking for myself, I am pretty sure the answer is both. In some things I am probably too permissive, and in others too legalistic. I think most of us are like this. I was in an email forum this week that included a discussion of some Christian materials designed to teach character. One of the character qualities they cover is punctuality. I couldn’t figure out what was bothering me about this, apart from the part that their scriptural support was pretty sketchy, until someone pointed out two things: first, that in most cultures of the world, punctuality is not a priority at all – in many places, you are not really late until you are 3 or more hours late. The second problem with this is that they give equal time to other character qualities including love. In our culture, generally speaking, punctuality is very important, but our expectations for love, especially for sacrificial love, are minimal. (Punctuality may sometimes be an expression of love, but demanding punctuality can be an expression of selfishness.) Putting love and punctuality on the same platform is simultaneously being too permissive and too legalistic.