Sunday, June 14, 2020

Kindness of the King


2 Samuel 9:1-13

In his message last time, Carl applied an honor-shame perspective to the idea of King David building a temple for the Lord. In our passage today, it will be important for us to use that same kind of honor-shame lens to better understand the story of Mephibosheth, a rather sad character whom David treated with honor when no one else did. It’s this kindness of the king that will be our focus today. Why did it matter that David showed kindness to such a person?

Before we begin reading in chapter 9, let’s jump back to chapter 4 to remind ourselves who Mephibosheth is. He is mentioned there in a parenthetical comment that appears to have nothing to do with the rest of the narrative in that chapter, which is about the murder of Ish-Bosheth, the son of Saul who was made king in opposition to David. Mephibosheth would have been the nephew of Ish-Bosheth.

(Jonathan son of Saul had a son who was lame in both feet. He was five years old when the news about Saul and Jonathan came from Jezreel. His nurse picked him up and fled, but as she hurried to leave, he fell and became disabled. His name was Mephibosheth.) – 2 Samuel 4:4

Saul and Jonathan had died at Jezreel in a battle with the Philistines. This nurse caring for the five-year-old son of Jonathan probably thought that the entire family was now at risk after the Philistine victory, and so she wanted to find a safe place quickly to protect him. In her panic, however, she dropped the child, and he was injured. Perhaps it was a spinal cord injury that made him a paraplegic. That would have been described as “lame in both feet,” and he would have been unable to get around on his own. He is known as Mephibosheth, which can be translated as “from the mouth of shame.” In that society, his disability would certainly have been seen as a shameful thing.

In many cultures, even today, disability is seen as a curse from God. The disabled person is thought to be paying the price for their or someone else’s sin. In John 9, Jesus’s disciples assumed this when they came across a man blind from birth. They asked Jesus, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?”
“Neither this man nor his parents sinned,” said Jesus, “but this happened so that the works of God might be displayed in him.”

Jesus shoots down their understanding of disability and heals the blind man. God is able to work for good in what would otherwise be seen as a divine curse. Jesus healed people with all kinds of disabilities, including lame people like Mephibosheth, inviting them to enter his kingdom on an equal basis with everyone else. He was able to make them acceptable because he is the Great High Priest, the only truly holy one, who offered himself as a perfect sacrifice for sin. Hebrews 7 describes Jesus like this:

Such a high priest truly meets our need—one who is holy, blameless, pure, set apart from sinners, exalted above the heavens. Unlike the other high priests, he does not need to offer sacrifices day after day, first for his own sins, and then for the sins of the people. He sacrificed for their sins once for all when he offered himself. – Hebrews 7:26-27

The priests of the Old Testament were a foreshadowing of this Great High Priest – holy, blameless, and pure – who by his own authority would bring about the priesthood of all believers. All of us therefore are able to approach the holiness of God and intercede for others because of Jesus going before. That’s what a priest does.

The priesthood of the Old Testament was established to represent the people before God – and to represent God to the people. Therefore the priests had to be physically perfect, as part of the image of perfection that the tabernacle presented. In Leviticus 21 it says

The Lord said to Moses, “Say to Aaron: ‘For the generations to come none of your descendants who has a defect may come near to offer the food of his God. No man who has any defect may come near: no man who is blind or lame, disfigured or deformed;  no man with a crippled foot or hand, or who is a hunchback or a dwarf, or who has any eye defect, or who has festering or running sores or damaged testicles. No descendant of Aaron the priest who has any defect is to come near to present the food offerings to the Lord. He has a defect; he must not come near to offer the food of his God. He may eat the most holy food of his God, as well as the holy food; yet because of his defect, he must not go near the curtain or approach the altar, and so desecrate my sanctuary. I am the Lord, who makes them holy.’” – Leviticus 21:16-23

It might sound like God was unfairly discriminating against disabled people, but he did allow them to eat the holy food, so he was not rejecting them. He was simply using the perfection of the tabernacle to give the people a picture of how holy he is. Still, these types of rules, if they are misinterpreted, can contribute to the discrimination aimed at disabled people. Being disabled has certainly been seen as a shameful thing in many of the world’s cultures.

With that background, let’s turn to our passage for today, 2 Samuel 9:

David asked, “Is there anyone still left of the house of Saul to whom I can show kindness for Jonathan’s sake?”
Now there was a servant of Saul’s household named Ziba. They summoned him to appear before David, and the king said to him, “Are you Ziba?”
“At your service,” he replied.
The king asked, “Is there no one still alive from the house of Saul to whom I can show God’s kindness?”
Ziba answered the king, “There is still a son of Jonathan; he is lame in both feet.”
“Where is he?” the king asked.
Ziba answered, “He is at the house of Makir son of Ammiel in Lo Debar.” – 2 Samuel 9:1-4

David wanted to honor the memory of Jonathan, his loyal friend. So he enquires about his relatives and finds out about Mephibosheth, living in the town of Lo Debar. Debar means “word” or “thing,” and “lo” negates it, so Lo Debar was a “nothing” kind of place, just the address for a lowly person who couldn’t walk. That didn’t matter to David. He reaches out to honor Mephibosheth.

So King David had him brought from Lo Debar, from the house of Makir son of Ammiel.
When Mephibosheth son of Jonathan, the son of Saul, came to David, he bowed down to pay him honor.
David said, “Mephibosheth!”
“At your service,” he replied.
“Don’t be afraid,” David said to him, “for I will surely show you kindness for the sake of your father Jonathan. I will restore to you all the land that belonged to your grandfather Saul, and you will always eat at my table.”
Mephibosheth bowed down and said, “What is your servant, that you should notice a dead dog like me?” – 2 Samuel 9:5-8

Amazingly, David brings this apparently godforsaken man from Nothingville to live in his palace. Mephibosheth bows down to show honor to David and debases himself in comparison. That would be expected. Mephibosheth was indeed in a lowly position, little better than a dead dog. But David invites him to join him at his table and eat with him – not just once, but from then on. That was an incredibly high honor. It means that he will be able to be in David’s presence every day, and enjoy the good food that David would have available. Plus David says that he will restore to him the estates of his grandfather Saul, which would give him a secure means of livelihood.

Mephibosheth is amazed by this treatment. Why should David be so kind to him? He had probably been treated like a nuisance his whole life, unable to care for himself, apparently cursed by God. He was used to rejection, not honor. And here was the king, not only noticing him but raising him up practically to the same level, like one of the king’s own sons.

Then the king summoned Ziba, Saul’s steward, and said to him, “I have given your master’s grandson everything that belonged to Saul and his family. You and your sons and your servants are to farm the land for him and bring in the crops, so that your master’s grandson may be provided for. And Mephibosheth, grandson of your master, will always eat at my table.” (Now Ziba had fifteen sons and twenty servants.)
Then Ziba said to the king, “Your servant will do whatever my lord the king commands his servant to do.” So Mephibosheth ate at David’s table like one of the king’s sons.
Mephibosheth had a young son named Mika, and all the members of Ziba’s household were servants of Mephibosheth. And Mephibosheth lived in Jerusalem, because he always ate at the king’s table; he was lame in both feet. – 2 Samuel 9:9-13

David commissioned Ziba to manage Saul’s property on behalf of Mephibosheth and his family, since it says he has a son and presumably a wife. As Saul’s steward, Ziba would have been responsible for managing the affairs of the royal household, so he would have been used to this type of role. He was clearly a prosperous man himself, with a large family and twenty servants of his own. He seems to be very compliant with David’s command that he look after Mephibosheth’s interests. However, we will see later that his loyalty is suspect. In chapter 16, during Absalom’s rebellion, when David was fleeing from Jerusalem with his household, he comes across Ziba, who greets him with provisions. Ziba says that Mephibosheth has stayed in the city in the hope of being restored to the throne, making Mephibosheth appear to be a traitor to David. David is understandably angered by this, and he takes back the property that he has given to Mephibosheth and gives it to Ziba instead.

However, after Absalom is killed, and David begins heading back to Jerusalem to take up his rule again, Mephibosheth comes out of the city to meet him and claims to have remained loyal the whole time. This is from chapter 19:

Mephibosheth, Saul’s grandson, also went down to meet the king. He had not taken care of his feet or trimmed his mustache or washed his clothes from the day the king left until the day he returned safely. When he came from Jerusalem to meet the king, the king asked him, “Why didn’t you go with me, Mephibosheth?”
He said, “My lord the king, since I your servant am lame, I said, ‘I will have my donkey saddled and will ride on it, so I can go with the king.’ But Ziba my servant betrayed me. And he has slandered your servant to my lord the king. My lord the king is like an angel of God; so do whatever you wish. All my grandfather’s descendants deserved nothing but death from my lord the king, but you gave your servant a place among those who eat at your table. So what right do I have to make any more appeals to the king?”
The king said to him, “Why say more? I order you and Ziba to divide the land.”
Mephibosheth said to the king, “Let him take everything, now that my lord the king has returned home safely.” – 2 Samuel 19:24-30

Mephibosheth appears not to have any political aspirations of his own, but he has only waited anxiously for David’s return, practically in mourning, as indicated by the way he refused to take care of himself. He is still so grateful for all that he has received, as he likens his benefactor to “an angel of God.” Had Ziba actually prevented him from going with David? It’s not clear why Ziba would have wanted to frame Mephibosheth in a bad light. Perhaps Ziba resented taking care of him or maybe was jealous that David had given Mephibosheth all of Saul’s property. If that were the case, then Ziba got what he wanted, as Mephibosheth was more than happy to give him all the land in return for being restored to the king’s presence and protection.

Do you feel sad for Mephibosheth? The injustice against him apparently did not end when the king initially showed him favor. Indeed David himself may have had some suspicions about him as a potential rival. Perhaps that was even a factor in David’s initial invitation that he join him at his table – so that he could keep an eye on him. You may have heard of the saying attributed to Sun Tzu, a 6th century BC Chinese general: “Keep your friends close but your enemies closer.” It’s important to know what the threats against oneself might be. But that may be reading too much into the story. David did have a deep love for Jonathan and wanted to honor his memory. It was a true kindness for David to invite Mephibosheth to his palace and table.

In a similar way, we have experienced the kindness of God in inviting us to his table. Jesus told this story in Luke 14 when he was eating in the house of a Pharisee:

Then Jesus said to his host, “When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or sisters, your relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
When one of those at the table with him heard this, he said to Jesus, “Blessed is the one who will eat at the feast in the kingdom of God.”
Jesus replied: “A certain man was preparing a great banquet and invited many guests. At the time of the banquet he sent his servant to tell those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’
“But they all alike began to make excuses. The first said, ‘I have just bought a field, and I must go and see it. Please excuse me.’
 “Another said, ‘I have just bought five yoke of oxen, and I’m on my way to try them out. Please excuse me.’
“Still another said, ‘I just got married, so I can’t come.’
“The servant came back and reported this to his master. Then the owner of the house became angry and ordered his servant, ‘Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.’
“‘Sir,’ the servant said, ‘what you ordered has been done, but there is still room.’
“Then the master told his servant, ‘Go out to the roads and country lanes and compel them to come in, so that my house will be full. I tell you, not one of those who were invited will get a taste of my banquet.’” – Luke 4:12-24

Jesus is making two points here. First, he is encouraging the type of kindness that David exhibited. He says to invite the lame and the poor to dinner, not your friends who may be able to pay you back. Human nature tends to focus on reciprocity in relationships. If someone gives us something or does us a favor we feel we should repay them somehow. That’s not a bad thing, but we should not come to expect it if we are the giver. How many times do we invite people for meals who have no way of doing anything for us in return? David had no expectation of Mephibosheth being able to repay his kindness. God will bless us for this kind of generosity.

Secondly, Jesus wants to confront the assumptions of the man claiming to know who God will honor at the great Messianic banquet to come. Jesus had said in the previous chapter (Luke 13) that people would come from east and west and north and south to take their places at the feast in the kingdom of God, promising that the last would be first and the first last. Still the Pharisees assumed that they would be in the places of honor because of their strict observance of the law. So Jesus tells this parable to illustrate that not all those invited would be at the banquet, but that some unexpected people would be there, like the lame man Mephibosheth, eating at the king’s table.

This ultimate feast of God is mentioned in several places from Isaiah to Revelation, where it is referred to lastly as the wedding supper of the Lamb. Jesus will marry his bride, the church. In inviting Mephibosheth to his table, David foreshadowed what this wedding feast is like: honoring those without honor, displaying the graciousness of the host. We can thank God that in salvation he has invited us to this feast, we who are broken and unworthy in ourselves. He wants to lift us up, to honor us, and to celebrate with us for eternity. And he wants us to extend that invitation to others who need to hear that message of grace and forgiveness. Part of that is through showing hospitality to them.

Kindness is listed among the fruit of the spirit in Galatians 5: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. These are the qualities that will make such a difference in our world today. Would kindness help cure racism? What does it mean for me to be kind to someone who is very different from me, someone who is looked down on or discriminated against? It can mean to honor them in the way David did in our story, to listen to them, to invite them into my space.

Angela Davis, a black activist, has said, “In a racist society, it is not enough to be non-racist, we must be anti-racist.” I don’t agree with everything she has written, but this statement certainly rings true. It is not enough to say that I am not racist therefore the current situation is not my problem. Changing systemic racism requires action, not just passive disapproval from those in a privileged position. Many of us are still trying to understand what that means. We may not even recognize that we are privileged, if we have not been subjected to the type of discrimination that virtually every black American has disproportionately experienced, in one way or another. Why is passive disapproval of racism not enough? Maybe a rough parallel could be drawn with the way many Christians over the centuries have viewed evangelism. They consider religion to be a private matter that they don’t talk about. They might be trusting Jesus for their own salvation, but they feel no obligation to tell anyone else about it.

William Carey, considered the father of modern Protestant missions in the late 1700s, faced not just lack of support for his mission endeavor but outright opposition from fellow ministers in the church. In one meeting where he presented his vision for outreach in India, he was abruptly interrupted by an older Baptist minister who said, "Young man, sit down! You are an enthusiast. When God pleases to convert the heathen, he'll do it without consulting you or me." Carey was considered quite radical in his assertion that the Great Commission applies to all Christians of all times. How could believers ignore it, he wondered. He wrote, "Multitudes sit at ease and give themselves no concern about the far greater part of their fellow sinners, who to this day, are lost in ignorance and idolatry."

Because of people like William Carey who were willing to act on their faith and their understanding of God’s word, evangelical Christians today understand that we each have a responsibility to proclaim the gospel to unbelievers and to live it out in practical ways our daily lives. Being a passive Christian, even if our own faith is real, is not enough. God wants us to act on our beliefs and even to confront others who are far from God. We should apply this same principle to racism and a host of other social issues, too. Micah 6:8 (ESV) is an important verse in this regard:

He has told you, O man, what is good;
    and what does the Lord require of you
but to do justice, and to love kindness,
    and to walk humbly with your God? – Micah 6:8

The Bible is full of commands about what it means to do justice: defending the cause of the fatherless and widow, caring for aliens and the poor, delivering the oppressed. God’s heart is clearly for those who are disadvantaged in society. And he commands his people to actually do something about injustice, not just believe correctly. That’s why it’s not enough to just say that you are not a racist. What does it mean to actually pursue justice for our black neighbors who continue to suffer discrimination in our society? Jesus was the one teacher who put the golden rule in active, positive form: do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Other religions came up with the inverse: do not do what you don’t want others to do. That is much more passive, a “live and let live” kind of approach. Jesus wants us to take action on behalf of others. How would we want others to respond if we were being discriminated against?

Micah also reminds us to love kindness. Kindness is what will bring warring factions together. Pursuing justice as a singular goal can sometimes create new barriers. It can easily appear heavy-handed and confrontative. Kindness can break those barriers down and bring people together again. We know that God’s own perfect justice is always balanced by his perfect love. Offering kindness allows us to touch other people’s hearts and see them change from the inside. And underpinning it all is humility before God, which keeps pride and selfishness at bay. It ensures that God gets the glory for what we do and not us.

David offered kindness to Mephibosheth in a way that flew in the face of the societal norms of his day. I realize that David was not necessarily out to change a system that discriminated against disabled people, but his actions toward Mephibosheth spoke volumes. Honoring him as he did raised this self-described “dead dog” of a man to nearly the highest place in the land. Others would have noticed that. David lived about 300 years before Micah, but he might well have been basing his life on this verse that we have looked at: doing justice, loving kindness, and walking humbly with God. He was far from perfect, but he kept returning to this foundation as a man after God’s own heart.

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