Sunday, March 22, 2015

Dying to Win

As you can see in your bulletin, we are nearing the end of our Superheroes series – just one more message after today. I’ll confess that I’ve never been a great fan of fantasy superheroes. Most of the books that I enjoyed reading growing up were about more realistic characters – still heroic, many of them, but with courage and abilities that I felt I could aspire to. However, one of the main points of this whole series has been to point out how God’s definition of a superhero is in many ways completely different, sometimes even the opposite of how the world might imagine one to be. God’s strength is made perfect in our weakness, as it says in 2 Corinthians 12. 

I’m convinced that God’s top superheroes are people that we never hear about. They’re not out there leaping tall buildings in a single bound. They are quietly living out God’s love and grace, faithfully reaching out day by day to the “least of these” that Jesus talked about. They will receive their reward in heaven; they don’t need to be recognized right now. In fact, I think we need to be careful about holding someone up as a spiritual superhero. Pride is such a pitfall. Any glory that a person receives diminishes what God receives. So if you do something good and no one notices, be glad! God sees – and that is what really matters.

Today we are going to talk about one of the most profound characteristics of a superhero who is pleasing to God. I am so excited to talk about this, because it is surely one of the most important aspects of being a Christian. Dying to win. What does that mean? Does it bring to mind Bob versus Daniel on the Ultimate field, both of them dying to win? No, that’s not what it means. Dying to win is actually the crux of the Christian life, the main or central feature. What does crux mean in Latin? It means the cross. The cross is at the center of history, the central focus of Jesus’ life, and it is at the center of what it means to be a superhero. That is why I have chosen this verse to focus on today: Luke 9:23.

“Then he [Jesus] said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.”

Jesus said to them all. There are no exceptions, no shortcuts. No surrogate sacrifices. Do you want to be a disciple of Jesus? Then you have to die. Not just once. Daily. Take up your cross and follow me. Jesus went first. We need to follow right behind.

Let’s look at the whole context of this statement, backing up to verse 18.

“Once when Jesus was praying in private and his disciples were with him, he asked them, “Who do the crowds say I am?”

They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, that one of the prophets of long ago has come back to life.”

“But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?”

Peter answered, “God’s Messiah.”

Jesus strictly warned them not to tell this to anyone. And he said, “The Son of Man must suffer many things and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests and the teachers of the law, and he must be killed and on the third day be raised to life.”

Then he said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it. What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self? Whoever is ashamed of me and my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of them when he comes in his glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels.”—Luke 9:18-26

Peter recognized that Jesus was the Messiah, the Anointed One, the Deliverer of Israel. The Messiah was like a superhero character to the Jews. He would come someday and deliver them from all their enemies and usher in a new era of peace and prosperity. So what was Jesus talking about when he spoke of suffering “many things” and being rejected and killed by the important people of the day. Jesus was identifying himself with the Suffering Servant of Isaiah 53.

“He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him. He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain. Like one from whom people hide their faces he was despised, and we held him in low esteem.

Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted. But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.” –Isaiah 53:2-5

That doesn’t sound much like a superhero. Way too much rejection and suffering. It certainly didn’t fit with what the disciples had in mind. You’ll recall how Peter rebuked Jesus, and Jesus had to say, “Get thee behind me, Satan.” The cross turns all our preconceived notions about glory and power upside down. We have to die to win? Only God could have planned it that way.

There is so much that we could say about the cross. We have talked in the past about what it meant for Jesus. What does it mean for us? What does it actually look like to deny ourselves, take up our cross daily, and follow him? I have chosen four “S” words to help us remember this aspect of being a superhero.

The first “S” word is Surrender. This is maybe where we differ the most from the comic book superheroes. They would never admit to weakness. They never give up. But surrender to God is at the heart of what it means to deny ourselves. I have heard people say, “I’m going to give up chocolate for Lent,” and they think that they are denying themselves. On a superficial level, they are. They may be refusing to indulge a certain appetite, but for what? Self-denial on its own merely shows how strong my willpower is. And it can easily become a matter of pride. I’m thinner than you, so I must be able to control my eating better than you can. This doesn’t necessarily bring us closer to God. In fact, there are many people out there in the world living a good life in their own strength and feeling good about it. They don’t need God; they are strong enough to handle things on their own. But we can’t be a true follower of Jesus until we give up, we surrender.

Surrender is more than submission. When we submit to God, we just quit fighting him. We admit that he is stronger than us and we are never going to be able to take him down. That’s submission. But surrender means actually giving up control. It’s like turning your weapons over to your opponent. You give him the power to do whatever he wants to with you. This is a very difficult step. And it’s not a one-time decision. We are faced with it again and again. Daily, according to Jesus. Our human nature wants to keep taking back control.

We can trace this back to the garden of Eden. The serpent tempted Eve, “You will be like God.” And ever since that time, people have been pursuing the knowledge of good and evil, wanting to be like God. In the humanist thinking of our day, man is the ultimate being. We need to take control. We want to take control. So it is a scary thing to give up control – even to God. But surrender is the first step to being a Jesus follower. We need to say, “Not my will, but yours be done. Whatever you want, God, I am willing to do it. Here is everything you have given me; I give it back to you to do with as you will.” We need to surrender everything: our will, our future, our careers, our possessions, our families, our own bodies. Everything we hold dear has to move to second place. God has to be number one.

I Surrender All. Do you know that hymn? I often thought that it sounded rather dismal, but I think it was just the music. Surrender is actually an incredibly joyful, exciting thing. We don’t give anything to God that he doesn’t return a hundred fold, either in this life or the next. It’s a hard thing to run your own life: making all the decisions, worried about making mistakes, needing to stay on top of everything and everyone else. What a relief to give things over to God and let him have control, knowing that he is all powerful, he knows everything, he knows us through and through – after all, he created us – and he loves us more than we can imagine.

So in surrender, we stop struggling. We stop struggling against God, questioning his goodness or sovereignty. We stop struggling to make everything work right in our lives. But does that mean we just sit back and do nothing? Or do we just become robots, with God completely overriding all our decision making? No, we still have to keep moving ahead – and that brings us to the second “S” word (or phrase, actually): Step Out in Faith.

Stepping out in faith implies that we take action. We are not passive, waiting for God to do everything – though in some cases we do need to wait patiently for God’s timing. We move ahead by faith, allowing him to steer us like a rudder can steer a moving ship. Stepping out in this way to follow Jesus implies trust, and for some people trust is even more difficult than surrender. Trust means being willing to be vulnerable in some way. Things might turn out differently than we expect or desire – and we need to be okay with that. Denying ourselves means not just giving up our right to control our own destiny, it means trusting that God knows best about everything that concerns us. It may not always make sense from a human standpoint. As Job said, “Though he slay me, yet will I hope in him.” I would like to show you a clip that illustrates what a step of faith might look like.

Here I showed a clip of Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade where Indiana has to trust that the invisible bridge exists.

Just like us, Indiana Jones had a book that told him where to go, and he could hear the voice of his father telling him to believe it. But when it came down to it, it was his foot poised over empty space, and he had to let go of his secure handholds and lean forward into the chasm before he discovered the invisible bridge. God keeps asking us as well, “Do you really trust me?” That is the primary reason that he allows hardship and confusion into our lives. He wants to hear us say, “Yes, Lord, I believe – no matter what.” Denying ourselves sometimes means denying our right to make sense of things, to understand, to fit everything together in a neat package. Sometimes life is messy, and God does not tidy it up. Did Job ever understand why he went through what he did?

Along with denying ourselves, Jesus says that we have to take up our cross to follow him. What does this mean? My mom tells a story from her days in Bible school in Minneapolis, many years ago, when she was sharing an apartment with 4 other girls, one of whom found her a frequent irritation – for some reason. So she told my mom, “You’re the cross I have to bear!” Is that what taking up our cross means: putting up with something that we don’t like? It could be part of it, I suppose, but as we know, the cross meant much more than that to Jesus. Primarily, it meant Sacrifice, our third “S” word. It was the place where he offered his life to pay for our sins. He gave up something so we could gain something. What does sacrifice mean for you? God will have to show you. But it will mean doing something unselfish and costly and humble. If it is for our benefit, it is not a sacrifice. If it doesn’t cost us anything, then – who cares? – it’s not a sacrifice. And if there is any pride involved – if we get any of the glory for it – then it is not a sacrifice that God will value. The Bible talks about offering to God a sacrifice of praise. How can praise be a sacrifice? It’s unselfish, if our focus is truly on God, and we delight in him. It can be costly, if we do it even when we don’t feel like it, when we praise God even in the inexplicable circumstances of our lives. And it is humble, because we do it despite of what other people think of us.

So we surrender to God and give up control, we step out in faith, trusting that the invisible bridge actually exists, and we sacrifice ourselves for the benefit of others. There is one more “S” word, perhaps the most difficult for us to understand: Suffering. The passage from Luke told us that Jesus lived his life in expectation of suffering “many things.” The cross was undoubtedly a place of severe, almost unimaginable suffering: not just the physical pain of a slow death, but the emotional pain of being separated from God the Father. Jesus had already suffered many things: severe temptation at a moment of weakness, rejection by many people, betrayal by a disciple, abandonment by all his friends. The perfect man had to endure incredible suffering.

Suffering is a mystery. We are never (this side of heaven) going to understand it completely. Why did Jesus have to suffer? Why do we have to suffer? Yes, we can talk about the global consequences of sin and fallen human nature that are the source of suffering in the world. But why doesn’t God just make it all better? I remember Carl pointing out that so many of our prayers can be boiled down to “God, please give me an easy life.” Why doesn’t he just do that? It would be so much easier. But we continue to have to suffer.

Sometimes God wants us to suffer for the benefit of others. We get a clue about this in Hebrews 2:

“For this reason he [Jesus] had to be made like them [Abraham’s descendants], fully human in every way, in order that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in service to God, and that he might make atonement for the sins of the people. Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.”—Hebrews 2:17-18

Jesus understands our suffering because of what he suffered. This is comfort for anyone who is hurting: Jesus hurt, too. He knows – really knows – what you are going through. Second Corinthians 1:

“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.” –2 Corinthians 1:3-5

Our comfort abounds through Christ – so that we can comfort those in any trouble. If we haven’t suffered, we can’t really comfort others who are suffering. We receive comfort from God, and we pass it on to a suffering world.

A second clue about suffering comes a little earlier in Hebrews 2, if we jump back to verse 9:

“But we do see Jesus, who was made lower than the angels for a little while, now crowned with glory and honor because he suffered death, so that by the grace of God he might taste death for everyone.

In bringing many sons and daughters to glory, it was fitting that God, for whom and through whom everything exists, should make the pioneer of their salvation perfect through what he suffered. Both the one who makes people holy and those who are made holy are of the same family. So Jesus is not ashamed to call them brothers and sisters.”—Hebrews 2:9-11

By the grace of God, it says, Jesus tasted death for all of us. Somehow he was “made perfect” through what he suffered. He was already without any sin, we know that, but he needed to suffer to truly become one of us. So when we take up our cross daily, we commit to that same kind of incarnational ministry that Jesus is our example for. We must become like those whom we are trying to help, to understand, and to reach with the gospel.

God wants us to grow through suffering. We know that he can use everything for good – we have to accept that by faith. So we can glory in our sufferings, as it says in Romans 5:

“And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” –Romans 5:2-5

So we can have hope in our suffering, because it is not meaningless, even if it is inexplicable and apparently unfair. Suffering produces perseverance, character, and hope if we continue to trust in God’s love. When that love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, we see beyond the suffering to everything good that God has for us. We have to keep that perspective, otherwise the world can be a pretty grim place sometimes.

God has been teaching me a lesson in this recently. A month ago, when I was running down a mountain in California, I glanced up at the wrong moment and my foot slipped off the trail. I came down on my right knee and lost a good patch of skin. However, I was having so much fun I kept running and hardly cared about the blood running down that eventually glued my sock to my ankle. It was something I could handle. I even got back to my room, got cleaned up, and made it to my meeting only 5 minutes late. 

However, two days later, running on a smooth, wide, level concrete bike path I happened to trip over a tiny tab of metal sticking up, and down I went, landing on the same knee in exactly the same place. It hurt much worse this time, but I think I felt the pain of the unbelievable unfairness of it even more. I was angry with myself, and I was angry with God. Why did I have to do it again? (And incidentally, I fell once more during Ultimate last Sunday and removed the scabs that were just about to heal. So my knee is still wounded.) So anyway, I was feeling a little upset as I cleaned myself up the second time. But I sensed God saying something to me. And it was a question that he has asked me many times before: Do you really trust me? If I lead you into a time of suffering, are you going to keep trusting me?

Suffering doesn’t make sense; it doesn’t seem fair. That’s why we struggle with something like Emily’s death, much more devastating than a scraped knee. Why did she have to die? She had been through so much, and things were looking somewhat hopeful. It seems so unfair. But Jesus asks us all the same question: Are you going to trust me? Do you want to be my follower? Are you willing to take up your cross daily, a cross of self-denial and suffering? Do you want to be that kind of superhero?

The human side of Jesus wanted to avoid the cross. In the Garden of Gethsemane he pleaded for a different way. But we know that it was for the “joy set before him” that he endured it. It was the joy of the resurrection and the victory that he won for all time. In the same way we are dying to win. What do we win? We win life, eternal life. In James 1 it says:

“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.”—James 1:12

So remember the “S” words: surrender, step out in faith, sacrifice, and suffering. Jesus has walked the path before us. Take up your cross daily and follow him. The crown of life awaits us.

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